Tuesday, May 12, 2020
Use metaphors to help gain clarity around a career choice
Use metaphors to help gain clarity around a career choice Who would have thought that metaphors would have played such an integral place in my coaching? Not me. I enjoy a good metaphor, but didnât always see their power. In the last year, Iâve been asking my clients to describe how they are feeling about a particular situation as a metaphor â" an analogous visual to describe their feelings. Here are some examples of what I heard. I feel like I am suck in an elevator with a bunch of people. The elevator is stuck between floors and the alarm is going off. This individual is trying to make a decision on where his career is headed. However, when he thinks about it, he experiences this elevator scene. Can you imagine making a career decision in that moment? You are surrounded by a bunch of people, stuck between floors which makes it difficult for rescue, and the alarm is going off so you canât even hear yourself think! There isnât a way to make an intentional decision when you are feeling like this. With this client, we had to work on viewing the decision from a different perspective â" a perspective that didnât feel trapped, loud, and cramped. Another client did not feel connected to her career. Many of my clients present with this concern. There is a lot of variety in how disconnected we feel. When I asked her to describe her specific feeling of disconnection she said It feels like my career is a vacuum and the vacuum is attached to my soul and is on at full sucking power. What a powerful visual. A small tweak in her role or a move to a new department isnt going to work. A small move will not likely fulfill her. Something more powerful is going to need to happen to disconnect the vacuum from her soul. Another client had been in a job search for 3 months without traction. Heres how he described it Its like driving my car on empty with the orange fuel light on and no gas station in sight. Before talking more about the actions he should be taking with his job search, we needed to uncover how he could fill up his gas tank. Before he could take more actions, he needed to refuel. There was nothing left to spend on job search until the refueling happened. I encourage you to try this career counseling technique. If you are feeling stuck, or unfulfilled, or frustrated, I would encourage you to think of a metaphor that would give some visual definition to those feelings. The metaphor can help clarify the feeling. With that clarity, you can open your mind to new ideas and perspectives that can help you move forward.
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